I’ll allow my husband have at least one side chick – Nigerian lady reveals 

A young Nigerian lady has sparked a debate among Netizens after she said that she’s open to her husband having at least one side chick.

The lady, with the Twitter handle @MetjahLeague, took to the microblogging site to explain why she’ll allow this.

She noted that she’d grant this because the side chick will entertain him when she’s not in the mood to pay attention to him and perform other duties.

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According to her, they’ll be free to do anything, and she’ll not be interested in knowing the details of their intimacy, but it will be on the condition that the mistress won’t be pregnant.

She, however, mentioned that the lady could only get pregnant for her husband if she reached menopause.

In @MetjahLeague words: “I want my husband to openly have 1 side chick that will entertain him when I’m bored and listen to his problem.”

She added, “I don’t even wish to know what they get up to as long as she doesn’t get pregnant. She’s allowed to get pregnant when I reach menopause though.”

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to entertain him when I’m bored and listen to his problems.

— _ (@MetjahLeague) January 9, 2023

A tweep with the handle @Lonwabomatya asked: “How about polygamy? Or don’t you want an arrangement that formal. Does the same apply to you, in terms of the side?”

@MetjahLeague responded: “Too formal. Maybe at a later stage.”

@WenzyROyal: “One thing people don’t understand, this is her life choice not group work. If that’s the type of marriage she wants, it has no impact if you want your marriage to be different. Difference is what makes life interesting and relationships all look different.”

@Thapelo24: “I still can’t believe that they said you can talk about amapiano and Kabza.”

@shali_bee: “Then she turns into your sister wife and now he’s spending more time with her than you. When you need him umuntu athi “but you know where I am” 😭Aowa! And yes she will have his baby and he will pursue more than 1 because Where’s the fun if he has permission 🤚🏽.”

@The_real_2melo: “I hear and respect your view. However why do we not try to uphold the morality, respect and dignity that is associated with being married rather than trying to “accommodate”/“accept”/“justify” infidelity? Lets preach to married men and women to respect their union.”

@sfisomnisi290: “Every time I heard a woman say this,she had a secret side she liked more than the main so equalled the field by letting hubby have a side too…………but you just open minded and willing to try new things,I see you.”

@Just_Lerato: “Pregnancy yona? Your kids will share their home with kids that aren’t yours when you die. HIV? If she has another partner then you’re on 3 sexual partners instantly.”

@Siya_ZAR: “Its funny how everyone be wishing to have a loyal husband & they still getting husbands with multiple women and now u wish for an honest man who will cheat on your own terms if he does (you rather mitigate the risk than exposing yourself to unknown risks) they are all pressed.”

@QueOrSomething: “To me this screams lack of self worth but it’s non of my business thou.”

@AmahleLamila: “Keep this mentality my daughter, it will help your marriage big time in future, alot of women are in denial thinking that a man wont cheat on you, it might not be during the 1st 5years of marriage, but once those titties sag, and that body changes, believe me you, his gon cheat.”

@tamzindungu: “Men are going to have sides regardless of whether you want it openly or secretively, they don’t need your permission, and him choosing how to go about it will have absolutely nothing to do with you as their reasons for having them have nothing to do with you in the first place.”

@EinsteinL: “I hope the day I have kids, my daughters will have the confidence and self-esteem to walk away from such things.”