‘My husband promised me N3m for threesome with maid’ – Nigerian woman laments
David Craig
Updated on April 07, 2026
A married Nigerian woman in need of money to start a business has cried out after her husband demanded a threesome with their maid before he would give her the money needed.
The woman, who sought for advice through a couple’s counselling page, @couplestherapies, said her husband promised her N3 million if she agreed to the activity.
The married woman further shared that her husband has never hidden anything from her and is always open about his side chicks. According to her, over the six years of their marriage, he has been involved with two other women, but he has never requested a threesome with them.
In her words, “My husband wants a threesome with our maid. He promised me a huge sum of money if I allow our maid to join us. I told him it will bring see finish and he said I can decide to send the maid away after that.
“One thing I know about my husband is that he doesn’t hide anything. If he wants to do something, he will do it with his full chest and tell you. He has never hidden his side chick. We re married for 6 years and he has dated 2 girls. But why will he ask for a threesome with my maid.
“Not even his side chick. I’m looking for money to start a business and the 3 million he promised me will do a lot. What do u advise.”
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Netizens react:
cutedunmade: “Omoooor what re you people marrying nah….May I not marry God forbid in form of a husband 🙏”
lily_babygal: “Omo na so ona Dey do for marriage ??? All I can see is poverty and no respect or values in your marriage , you don’t love your husband ❌ you probably married him because of money even the money you nor get 😡😡your husband promised you 3m to sleep with your maid ?? You don’t even respect your self even if you don’t respect the word marriage , I guess because he knows he can always buy you with money , whatever you do as a woman make sure you make your own money !!! Because na money Dey cause this rubbish see finish !!! Your type are the type men call peace of mind !!! You definetly married for the wrong reasons aunty !!! You guys were never in love❌❌I am short of words abeg , get out from here you are a disgrace to women , shey na 3some go give you 3m, collect and enjoy , nor be today he start !!”
essentials_by_lawlars: “advice again? when you already said the 3 million can do alot? una know wetin una wan do, una go corm dey whyne us here ….Ndi he takes care of me and the kids , He respects me … Koburu.”
michelle_thetwin: “Marriage these days is not for the faint-hearted because what are we going to call this one!!!🤮”
bensimsam23: “What kind of nonsense is this ❓ what is happening in the marriages of this days …. Even you self I don’t understand the kind of person you are all in the name of being in marriage 👌👌 this is very bad , it’s uncalled for …it doesn’t make any sense….. Things people do for money …”
kilishi__: “don’t start what you cannot finish 🙏
PS: the fact that you know he has side chicks and you’re okay with that already says a lot bout you. already shows that you don’t mind the threesome sef.
just don’t start what you cannot finish.”
ujuamobi: “Even inside marriage Persin dey still do proštïtution to collect money from her own husband too? O dikwa egwu really. Anyways, if you won’t feel insulted in your own home, go ahead but seriously how much bullshyt will you take before you tell yourself ENOUGH!!”
kukkyboma: “You know you want to do it, it’s all about the money for you so why are you still asking for advise when you said you know your husband very well?”
kbaba_69: “Im not getting married again abeg. I rest my case. Mad couples everywhere. 😂😂😂”
ugoebenaja_ndi_igbo: “Hahaha promise a woman money I swear she can do anything, once a woman marry a man with money do her dirty she will still praise you .. don’t go close to a desperate woman .. na efulefu them be .. imagine waiting married couple they do .. she even know his side chick hahah because of money that she cannot manage.”
