Sex Tips: 7 Moves to Try on Your Way to First Base
Andrew Mccoy
Updated on March 29, 2026
4. The Pervy Masseur
I discovered this one basically by accident. I was giving my then-GF a backrub, and every time I moved down past her shoulder blades she would moan. Turned out, without even noticing it, one of my fingers was brushing the side of her breast, giving her the right kind of chills. These casual slips, or barely touches, can drive a partner wild.
5. The Nanjob
This one may also be cheating, but whatever; sue me. It is essentially a non-handjob handjob and I suggest only busting it out when you're ready to go past first, or you are going to have a very frustrated little man on your hands (or all over your hands). This basically involves getting your dude on his back, or sitting down, and then making a ring around his Dude with your fingers, and stroking it gently. Essentially, you're tickling his Johnson, or doing a mock Old Fashioned, but whatever you want to call it, it's super-fun, and super-teasy.
6. Back Tracking
This is, in it's simplest form, a line of wet kisses that starts at the top of his/her crack and goes all the way up their spine to the nape of their neck. When I'm delivering, I like to push her onto the bed, turn her over, pull up her shirt and deliver butterfly kisses at a very slow pace. By the time I'm at the top, she's often beside herself.
7. Head Rubs/Butt Rubs
Butts are super erotic, as are heads, and if you focus your rubbing on that one part of the body, you will quickly discover how sexy a small movement of one finger can be, your partner's hidden erogenous zones, or just the right amount of pressure that can send him over the edge.
What moves do you like on the way to first base? Do you have your own names for these moves?
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